Pathological Altruism

Originally written: March 6,2023, 12:01am, EST | Revised: August 13,2023, 1:06pm, EST.|Published, August 13, 2023, 5:20pm, EST      I was introduced to the term while researching content for my last book, The Self-Love Practitioner.  I was absolutely thrilled to learn about the topic for a variety of reasons. Chiefly, because it fit so wellContinue reading “Pathological Altruism”

The Outer, the Inner, and the Upper Me.

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Written: Aug. 13 2023, 3am, EST | Published; Aug. 13, 12:52pm, EST 5.6 minute read       Over the past several years I have grown increasingly passionate about self-love.  I’ve combed through scores of articles, blog posts, and science journals.  At each sitting, I typically have multiple tabs open inContinue reading “The Outer, the Inner, and the Upper Me.”

The Self-LoveContinuum-enhancements from mindset to mouth

By James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Originally published Aug. 4, 2023 | Revised Aug 11, 2023 In a recent coaching session, as I was assisting a client  to develop more confidence in their communicative ability I inadvertently mention a number of topic quite randomly.  And, in so doing the mentioning of the topics we’re ofContinue reading “The Self-LoveContinuum-enhancements from mindset to mouth”

Couples’ Coaching: All day love making

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published April 10, 2023, 934pm, EST | Updated April 10, 2023, 2:21pm, EST (A 3.7-minute read) This the 9th post of a series.      I am grateful for the many things I’ve done in life that were borne out necessity that I later learned have been legitimized by others. AllContinue reading “Couples’ Coaching: All day love making”

Couples’ Coaching: addressing disparities in the relationship dynamic

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published April 9, 2023 8:55pm, EST | Updated… (A 2.4-minute read) One of the questions that a skilled, experienced couples’ coach can present to clients realize is, is the basis for the partnership on a solid and sturdy enough foundation on which current activities and future aspirations can be built?Continue reading “Couples’ Coaching: addressing disparities in the relationship dynamic”

Couples’ Coaching: the one thing it cannot fix.

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published Sunday, April 9, 2023, 3:46pm, EST | Updated April 9, 2023, 3:50pm, EST. (A 2.4-minute read)    In my humble opinion,  it can never be stated enough. Thankfully, I am always poised & ready… to offer the definition of coaching. “Coaching is a form of development in which an experiencedContinue reading “Couples’ Coaching: the one thing it cannot fix.”

Couples’ Coaching: the power of communication

By: James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published April 7, 2023 | April 8, 2023, 1:12pm, EST. (A 6.6 minute read) My coaching journey is rooted in the years I served in leadership positions in the customer service call center industry.  I fell in love with the nuts and bolts of the interactions I had withContinue reading “Couples’ Coaching: the power of communication”

The Hawthorne Effect-the best and the ripest low hanging fruit for coaches

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published on March 29, 2023, 8:06 p.m., EST | Updated on March 29, 2023, 8:27 p.m., EST Post 6 of the Relationship/Couples’ Coaching series      I would like to begin with full disclosure of the fact that this post is evidence that my inner “Syd the Science Kid” is subjectContinue reading “The Hawthorne Effect-the best and the ripest low hanging fruit for coaches”

Couples’ coaching: another key to effective communication-sacred ground

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published March 27, 2023, 8:23 p.m., EST| Updated: March 3.27.2023, 9:06 p.m., EST (A 3.4 minute read) Like most of the information I share with my couples’ coach clients this key was birthed out of a very painful person experience I had with my significant other. Yup. That experience wasContinue reading “Couples’ coaching: another key to effective communication-sacred ground”