Author Archives: James W. Falcon

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published on March 29, 2023, 8:06 p.m., EST | Updated on March 29, 2023, 8:27 p.m., EST Post 6 of the Relationship/Couples’ Coaching series      I would like to begin with full disclosure of the fact that this post is evidence that my inner “Syd the Science Kid” is subjectContinue reading “The Hawthorne Effect-the best and the ripest low hanging fruit for coaches”

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB Published March 27, 2023, 8:23 p.m., EST| Updated: March 3.27.2023, 9:06 p.m., EST (A 3.4 minute read) Like most of the information I share with my couples’ coach clients this key was birthed out of a very painful person experience I had with my significant other. Yup. That experience wasContinue reading “Couples’ coaching: another key to effective communication-sacred ground”

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB 6.5 minute read Published March 24, 2023 – 10:036 pm, EST |Updated March 25,2023-5:54a.m., EST      The modality of coaching helps people to find healthier, more efficient paths to reach their goals.  In essence, a coach is a guide.  The more skillful, the more experienced the coach, the more enjoyableContinue reading “Couples’ Coaching: a key to effective communication”

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB March 22, 2023 (7 minute read) It only needed to happen once.  It was the scariest thing to hear and the absolute saddest thing to see.  It, like so many of my initial interactions with my first couples’ coaching clients has haunted me for several years.  But this situation sentContinue reading “Couples’ Coaching: the scariest, saddest thing I’ve ever experienced in a coaching session”

James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB March 19, 2023 (A 6-minute read)      I absolutely love relationship coaching.  It’s been as rewarding as it’s been challenging. I will explain the why’s and the how’s shortly.  This post is for anyone out there who is interested in jumping into the relationship coaching world. Or, for any coaches Continue reading “The monster or the medicine? The importance of using coaching guidelines”

By James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB      Considering how large of a portion relationship clients are of my total practice; I don’t have a reasonable explanation as to why I haven’t written more posts about relationship coaching related topics.  Relationship coaching is also known as  couples coaching, or marriage coaching.  and, it happens to beContinue reading “Relationship Readiness: next level couples’ coaching”

By James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB, I was initially introduced to the term while researching content for my last book, The Self-Love Practitioner. I was absolutely thrilled to learn about the topic for a variety of reasons. Chiefly, because it fit so well into the content plan of my book, particularly from an antithetical standpoint.Continue reading “Pathological Altruism: the absence of Self-Love”