James W. Falcon

Self-Love, the next level

As a self proclaimed self-love practitioner, I welcome every opportunity to learn more about the topic. I am also always clad and ready for an even deeper dive of exploration on the topic as well. My enthusiasm often reaches combustible levels for a variety of reasons. First, because of how well an understanding of theContinue reading “Self-Love, the next level”

Aligning the inner me with the outer me

As a coach I’ve termed this congruence Almost a year ago. I had one of many hit the wall self-reflection experiences. Flying past a mirror of mine on my way to my home office, I was forced to take notice of myself on a very personal level. The blurred image of myself that IContinue reading “Aligning the inner me with the outer me”

Finding Fulcrums

By: James W. Falcon Originally published Dec. 31, 2022, 1:30am, EST. | Revised Aug. 21, 2023, 509am, EST. #coaching,#selfhelp #personalgrowth According to the online resource, the Dictionary of Oxford Languages online, retrieved December,2022, a fulcrum is a thing that plays a central or essential role in an activity, event, or situation. We learned in theContinue reading “Finding Fulcrums”

How to overcome limiting beliefs: minor changes in perception can create major changes in trajectory

From the onset, let me connect a few dots in order to really hammer the point and purpose of this post home. First the context: Coaching is a form of development in which an experienced person, called a coach, supports a learner or client in achieving a specific personal or professional goal by providing trainingContinue reading “How to overcome limiting beliefs: minor changes in perception can create major changes in trajectory”

Drafting the calendar

I’d like to introduce the bloggosphere to the term and the concept of drafting the calendar. I developed the term several years after I experienced the most incredible explosion & exhibition of inspiration ever! It was during a spell of writing I had in the fall and winter of 2019. The term was born outContinue reading “Drafting the calendar”

What clients can expect from my coaching

Recently, I added a few more new clients to my practice list. And, in the course of onboarding them I couldn’t help but to pay attention to my word choice in the process. My observations and take always from those exchangesI thought might be of interest to others, both potential client and would-be coach alike.Continue reading “What clients can expect from my coaching”

What’s In A Name?

You might ask. Everything. At least for me. My name is James W. Falcon. My name is James, not Jimmy. Nor Jim. My name is James. And, I would prefer to be called just that, James. Meaning don’t shortened it to make it easier for you nor more convenient for you. Jimmy was a graceContinue reading “What’s In A Name?”

The Modern Case for Self-Love

There has never been more evidence nor as an overwhelming an outcry for self-love than there is at present. For starters we are in the throes of a worldwide pandemic. And, as responsible members of society, we have been urged to comply with the social distancing, self quarantining and other isolation based pandemic related requirements.Continue reading “The Modern Case for Self-Love”

O.K. So, I’ll be the first to admit it, I was wrong about self-love!

I was dead wrong about self-love. Dead wrong. I was dead wrong about it’s use. It’s efficacy. It’s power and practicality. If I am completely honest, I missed the boat, the harbor and the city. Yup. It wasn’t until I started doing in-depth research on the subject did I realize just how vital self-love isContinue reading “O.K. So, I’ll be the first to admit it, I was wrong about self-love!”

Journaling-A Powerful Tool in the Goal Pursuit Process

I received my life coaching certification from an organization that teaches that coaching is the process of facilitating personal growth and develop for your clients. For me as a person as well as a coach personal growth & development is key. A tool that has been a tremendous help on my journey has been journaling. Continue reading “Journaling-A Powerful Tool in the Goal Pursuit Process”