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By James W. Falcon, MSOL, CLSSBB, I was initially introduced to the term while researching content for my last book, The Self-Love Practitioner. I was absolutely thrilled to learn about the topic for a variety of reasons. Chiefly, because it fit so well into the content plan of my book, particularly from an antithetical standpoint.Continue reading “Pathological Altruism: the absence of Self-Love”

By: James W. Falcon Originally published Dec. 31, 2022, 1:30am, EST. | Revised Aug. 21, 2023, 509am, EST. #coaching,#selfhelp #personalgrowth According to the online resource, the Dictionary of Oxford Languages online, retrieved December,2022, a fulcrum is a thing that plays a central or essential role in an activity, event, or situation. We learned in theContinue reading “Finding Fulcrums”

From the onset, let me connect a few dots in order to really hammer the point and purpose of this post home. First the context: Coaching is a form of development in which an experienced person, called a coach, supports a learner or client in achieving a specific personal or professional goal by providing trainingContinue reading “How to overcome limiting beliefs: minor changes in perception can create major changes in trajectory”

I’d like to introduce the bloggosphere to the term and the concept of drafting the calendar. I developed the term several years after I experienced the most incredible explosion & exhibition of inspiration ever! It was during a spell of writing I had in the fall and winter of 2019. The term was born outContinue reading “Drafting the calendar”

You might ask. Everything. At least for me. My name is James W. Falcon. My name is James, not Jimmy. Nor Jim. My name is James. And, I would prefer to be called just that, James. Meaning don’t shortened it to make it easier for you nor more convenient for you. Jimmy was a graceContinue reading “What’s In A Name?”

There has never been more evidence nor as an overwhelming an outcry for self-love than there is at present. For starters we are in the throes of a worldwide pandemic. And, as responsible members of society, we have been urged to comply with the social distancing, self quarantining and other isolation based pandemic related requirements.Continue reading “The Modern Case for Self-Love”

In the course of my research as a Masters student I stumbled across some information that has proven to be immensely valuable to me and my clients. Supposing that I had assigned the world of performance improvement to a fleeting portion of my rear view mirror as I headed feverishly forward into the land ofContinue reading “The Relationship Coach”

I was recently made aware of a demographic that I feel requires a spotlight.  There is a segment of the population that is made up of persons 40-50 years old who are parents with either a minor child or an adult child.  The additional aspect of the scenario is the fact that these people areContinue reading “The Sandwich Generation”

As a life coach I get the overwhelming impression that many  people think of hiring a life coach as  something wealthy people took advantage of.  That may be because most of us were introduced to life coaches by folks we watched either on television or on the big screen.  Perhaps that may be my perception-mineContinue reading “Why Hire A Life Coach?”

Over the years I have come to realize how important it is to align myself with seasonal occurrences and changes as a means of facilitating the goal pursuit-goal attainment process. For example, I have found the period from Thanksgiving through New Years to be a must ride wave. That period is generally filled with aContinue reading “Tis the Season.”