Hemorrhaging Because Of A Lack Of Boundaries

One of the things that I have found critical in the setting and pursuit of goals is exercising boundary setting and maintenance efforts.    The two are a readymade set like a knife and a fork.  Or, a cup and a saucer.  The experience is incomplete if you possess only one and not the other.  We live in a world that has grown increasingly complicated.  We are continuing barraged with an avalanche of data and demands daily and all throughout the day.   In order to be truly effective and efficient in the goal pursuit must find ways of turning off or at least in turning down the impact of the data demands so that we can focus on the tasks at hand.  Many people truly struggle in that area. But that struggle has got o be overcome or else we will never get the things done that we want to or need to.  As a result, many people are hemorrhaging time, energy and enthusiasm because of a lack of boundaries.  This is a condition that kills dreams, strangles visions, and robs us at gunpoint in open daylight of the motivation we need to stay in stride toward our goals.  Don’t allow that to happen to you.  Learn how to tell people “no” during critical times of your goal pursuit process.  Turning your phone’s ringer off, use the do not disturb feature (which I’ve found to be helpful on iPhones).  Use it and don’t feel guilty  about it.  It will make your focus a much easier process and you will have fewer thing that could potentially compete with your goal progress.